On Friday morning at approximately 11:57 a 911 call was made from an apartment in Spencerville, Ohio. The caller stated (rather calmly) that "we just woke up and I think our baby is dead". He tells the operator that he believes the baby choked on his own vomit and is dead. The operator asks if he knows how to do CPR at which point the caller says "do you know how to do CPR,babe?" Again, calmly. No distress in his voice. No anguish. Calm and even as though he were asking if his girlfriend would like fries or salad with her burger. In the background the woman can be heard shrieking that she knows CPR. When help arrived at 229 Wurster Drive they found that baby. In a hallway. Dead.
Here are the facts that have been reported so far. The baby was 17 month old Xavier Wurth. He lived with his mother, 20 year old Alexis Long and her boyfriend (not his father) Christopher Clayton, also 20 years old. First responders found little Xavier in an upstairs hallway, dead from obvious and apparent trauma. His autopsy determined the cause of death was blunt force trauma to the back of his head. Christopher has lived with Xavier and his mother for less than a year. He was arrested, charged with murder and his being held on 5 million dollars bond and on suicide watch in Allen County.
Apparently the details as reported by Christopher are that they had put the baby to bed Thursday evening at 8pm. He stated he was watching Xavier. When he made the 911 call he stated they had just awakened to find the baby dead. This all raises some questions:
If you put the baby to bed at 8pm the night before, why were you just waking up at almost noon and who was caring for this baby while you slept all morning?
If you had just awakened as you stated in the call yet the mother is heard screaming in the 911 call, when did she arrive at home? Was she present the entire time?
The answers aren't necessary for this particular blog post. They are irrelevant in fact. Christopher Clayton is believed to be the person who killed precious little Xavier. He may be to blame for the act of killing this child but Alexis Long shoulders the blame for putting a killer in her child's path. And here is why.
I'm a mother. I have been a mother for 27 years. There was a time when I, like so many other moms out there- was a single mother trying my best to be a good mother to my baby boy. And just like many if not most of those single moms, I was lonely. I was alone. I wanted someone to love me, love my son, be a father. All of that. But,unlike so many of the moms who find themselves burying their children at the hands of their lovers I was NOT willing to sacrifice my child for my own needs,wants or desires.
Now,I've read several articles about this case. Most of them include public comments. The majority of those comments indicate the belief that the mother, Alexis Long should be charged with her son's death right alongside her boyfriend. I couldn't agree more. Of course, there are those who chime in and defend her and claim to know the family intimately. They say that this mother is an excellent mother who loves her son and would never do anything.....ANYTHING to harm him. They're wrong.
I am not doubting her love for Xavier. She might have even been a good,devoted and loving mother to him. BUT.......she absolutely did something to put her son in harm's way. She moved a man into her home and into her son's life without truly knowing who that man was or what he might be capable of.
Ladies.......single moms......Listen up. STOP!!!!! Life stops being about you,your needs,your wants or your desires the SECOND that you become a mother. From that instant on-life and all of your choices and decisions should absolutely revolve around what is best FOR YOUR CHILD. Period. Did you hear me? Let me simplify it for you. YOUR CHILD'S NEEDS AND WELL BEING COME FIRST. Did you get it that time?
So many single moms, especially young single moms are so all consumed with the need to have a man in their life that they completely forget the most important person in their life.....their child. They date on a revolving door basis, often times hooking up with or moving onto the next warm body before the current one is even packed and out the door. Make no mistake,that's what they are.....warm bodies. STOP parading man after man after man into and out of your child's life. STOP entrusting your child's life to these strangers,because they ARE strangers. You do not know them. And they should therefore NOT know your child.
If you want to date. Fine. Date. Find a trustworthy babysitter and go out occasionally to socialize,make friends and possible explore a potential relationship with an upstanding man of high values and morals. (FYI-you won't find him in a drunken stupor at the local club cat-calling you about how hot you are or what a nice rack you have.) If you hit it off.....date. DATE. Do you know what that means? Go out with him. OUT. Dinner. Movies. Church. The park. Hiking. The possibilities are endless. None of them involve spreading your legs because "there's chemistry" or "we have sooooooo much in common". None of them....NONE of them involve bringing that man home with you and NONE-hear me clearly....NONE of them include introducing that man to your child. Date. For awhile. Not a week. Not a month. Maybe not even six months. DATE!!!! Find out who this man is OUTSIDE of the bedroom. Find out what he believes in. Have deep,meaningful conversations. Think with your brain (that's what God put it there for,you know) and NOT with the warm and fuzzy feelings you get in your stomach or any other southern region. And THEN.....slowly introduce him to your child. Small doses. Public places. Let them get to know each other the same way you did.....slowly. If you're looking for a true life partner and someone worthy of being a father or father figure to your child this is the only real way to do that. A man doesn't become your child's father after a weekend of hot sex following a chance meeting at a bar. He doesn't become your life partner because he's so cute and makes you feel so giddy that you give him a drawer and he "suddenly seems to always be there anyway so you might as well move in".
Does this method require a lot of time? Yes. Does it take an incredible amount of patience? Sure. Will you need to resist physical urges? Probably. You're human. But you can do it. And in the end.....not only will you reap the benefits - because even if the first time doesn't lead to your "soulmate" it is a step in your own self awareness and will only help you know that much more clearly what it is you want and what it is you won't settle for in a partner........but-you are also much, MUCH less likely to have to bury your child at the hands of this week's love of your life.
Alexis Long did not protect her child. She did not put Xavier's needs before her own need to have a man in her life. Alexis Long allowed a man she couldn't possibly have known well enough into her home and into the life of her precious little boy. Alexis Long entrusted the care (and therefore the life) of her innocent child to the hands of Christopher Clayton and in doing so delivered her child into the hands of his killer.
Now, I am well aware that my opinion will be wildly unpopular with a lot of people. I anticipate the comments about not knowing what I am talking about.....not knowing what horrible grief this mom must be experiencing......and much more. And that's ok. I can take it. Because as unpopular as my statements might be.....they are true and accurate. How many children have been murdered in the last five years at the hands of the live in boyfriend?? How many more have to die before women wake up and start respecting themselves enough not to be just another hookup for the next hot guy that whistles their way? How many more babies have to be sacrificed before mothers understand that they are delivering their children to slaughter for the sake of a warm spot to sleep next to? It's time to end this horrific cycle of murder and choose your children.
Rest in peace, precious Xavier. I am so sorry that your last moments on this Earth were filled with fear and pain. God Bless you,precious boy.
And for Alexis and Christopher.......you both deserve to be charged with and convicted of murder and sentenced accordingly.
Tisk tisk well sounds like you know the mom very well! Shame on you and the horse you rode in on! I don't know this mom or man responsible but your wrong your reasoning is ridiculous! I mean i can't believe on her 1st date with this guy that she had sex with him and asked him to move in with her ( see how this works, insinuating things it's a slippery slope) she is going to have enough guilt without crazies thinking she knowingly put her son in harms way. I'm sure your well aware that people snap and without warning to boot! God forbid something like this happen to your family or yourself because well we would have no choice but blame you for being so irresponsible for loving and having those people in your life! Everyone has their opinion i get that but in no way is what you said the "truth" wake up and instead of condemning this poor mom maybe you should pray for her she needs that more than people wanting her head on a platter!
ReplyDeleteThanks for your input. Trust me when I say I absolutely praying for Alexis and for that matter I am actually praying for Christopher as well. I pray for their forgiveness and for their salvation. And as ridiculous as you might think my reasoning is I assure you it is spot on. I stand by----rather, sit atop my high horse beside every single word of it. I never said she personally had sex with him on their first date but many women do. They mistake it for love. It's not. It's lust. And as a mother.....there would never be "enough guilt" to deal with knowing that I put my own child in the hands of his killer. She didn't have to knowingly put him there......the problem is that she didn't KNOW this man at all. For the record........something like this DID happen to me. Twenty-three years ago. I mistook those warm,fuzzy feelings of lust for true love and devotion. The difference is, Thank God......my son wasn't killed. I got the chance to fix what I had done wrong. And my son got to live his life. I thank God each and every day since that one that I was given the chance to learn, grow and to NEVER put my children in a situation like that again. And I do blame myself for that mistake...because it was my fault for thinking my need for love outweighed my son's need for safety and stability. Make no mistake.....every word of what I said is the truth,whether you agree with it or not. And maybe if more people were willing to get involved, stand up for these babies, speak that truth and demand that the mothers be held accountable we might just see more babies actually becoming adults.
ReplyDeleteJeanie watts you are praying for a man who killed a kid really come on
DeleteAbsolutely. That's what God expects of us. We are to pray for everyone. Why should this man be any different? Is he not deserving of prayer? The person undeserving of prayer does not exist. Jesus forgave the sinners hanging with him on the cross. He asked His Father to forgive those who were so brutally putting Him to His death. Yes, I absolutely pray for him. I pray he realizes what he has done, the heinousness of it all. I pray that he finds salvation and forgiveness from God before he leaves this life. I pray that he never obtains freedom to repeat his brutality on another precious life. So, YES. I pray for him. It's what God expects of me.
Deleteplease the little boy was my 2 cousin Jeanie watts
Deletestop pray for a child murder I hope he got his ass hard 2 him in prison he taken a sweet little boy from my family you have no idea what my family is go throught Jeanie watts so shut you mouth be for you talked
DeleteJennifer......I've read your comments through a few times and I am struck mostly by your complete and utter lack of grammar skills. It's much like reading the rantings of a petulant elementary school child. Having said that, let me say a few things about this particular comment. No. I will NOT stop praying for Christopher. Yes, he is a killer. Yes, he deserves to be punished. He also deserves our prayers. Everyone does. Apparently the Bible you read (if you do) says we should pick and choose who to pray for or who is worthy of God's attention. While I cannot fathom the circumstances which have brought your family to the place of mourning a sweet, innocent child I can assure you I know more about grieving the death of a child than you could possibly imagine. Don't pretend to know me simply because you read something I wrote and didn't like it. As for shutting my mouth "be for you talked" I am baffled at what exactly you're trying to say here. I can only reply to that statement with this-I will not shut my mouth. This is my blog. That means two things. I can write whatever I want and you can choose to ignore it and go troll someone else's blog that only writes things you enjoy reading.
DeleteJeanie watts stop pray for chris he is a baby killed
DeleteClearly you didn't even read my previous comment.
DeleteI'll tell you what....I'll continue praying for him and I'll add you to my list of those I pray for. Once again, I don't know how to read whatever it is you're trying to say here. Please, move on.
I don't agree with this theory of yours. I can understand where you are coming from what somewhat, but here is the thing. Any family member, babysitter or caretaker you leave your child with is capable of something triggering and that switch "flipping on." I mean mothers kill their kids all the time, there was just the one in the news that burnt her newborn alive. Remember Susan Smith? You can't blame this mother for the murder of this child. Now, if she knew he was an abuser, knowingly knew that he either hit that child or herself, then I would agree she is accountable. But if there were no obvious signs that he was going to flip his lid, then no. You want to blame her, well where was the actual father at? He would be as guilty as she is, with your opinion. He is engaged, so how do we know she wouldn't put the child in danger? I mean if the child was only 17 months old then that must mean they had a whirl wind relationship also. Why didn't he protect his son? Should he also be charged with murder? My thoughts are that these young people are taking the responsibility of motherhood/fatherhood on at way to much of a young age. They are in no way mature enough themselves to handle the responsiblity of raising a child, they can barely manage themselves. A lot of them are searching for the feeling of love and wanting to feel wanted. I really think if we want to fix the situation we need to start with the parents raising the kids, teaching them not to be so fast to get pregnant until they are mature and stable in their own life. Not to be spreading their legs for anyone that gives them a little bit of attention, because obviously something is missing in their life if they are searching for affirmation by sex. I don't think it's necessary to add to this young ladies guilt by saying she is a murderer. I pray she can get through this. I am sure she beats herself up for it. But you know she could have married someone and been happily married for 15 years and something happened. You just can't read people and they can be an ok person one second and a mental case the next.
ReplyDeleteI don't have to give you reasons. It's not my job or intent to convince you. And the details of the case are known to those who need to know them. By the way....Christopher had a history (including legally) of drug use. But you're right....Alexis probably used her logical thought process to foresee his ability to be a good father figure to her son. Probably the same process she used to convince herself it was in Xavier's best interest to try keeping him from his father. Yeah. That's right. That's not in the news stories either. I must be making it up to fit my thinking. As for your thoughts.....you (not shockingly) missed the entire point of my original post. Women who are single and are raising their children have absolutely GOT to STOP searching for satisfaction or validation or whatever it is they're searching for between the sheets with a revolving door of men they don't know. Period.
ReplyDeleteJeanie, I couldnt agree with you more. I cant believe no one is commenting on this anymore. I honestly believe that there are alot more people who feel that Alexis Long is just as much at fault as Chris Clayton, but they are afraid to say it. How could she let her sweet little baby boy lay for 16 hours in a soiled diaper and just forget about him until noon the following day? None of this makes sense. All I know is that is neglect right there alone.Chris admitted that he had been torturing the little boy by hitting him, knocking him on his butt, shoving him down etc and I dont see how she never saw any marks or bruises. Her sister Jackie has a pic of herself with Xavier on her facebook page and in that pic you can clearly see a black and blue bump on Xaviers forehead! Wake up people!! Alexis is just as guilty as Chris!!
DeleteThank you! You know....I agree. People are afraid so often to speak the truth. I get it. Speaking it makes it real and if this truth is real then life isn't all sunshine and roses. But as a mother I don't understand why more mothers aren't outraged. I have given birth to eight babies. My last two never took a breath. The six living children I have will NEVER come second to a man. And GOD help the man who even thinks about putting his hands on my child......jail will be involved (for me!)
DeleteSo apparently you know the details and have underlying knowledge of this family. Apparently you have ill feelings because you feel like Alexis kept her child from the real father. I don't know ANY of these people or the details of their lives. Like I said I can understand and agree with what you are saying, I agree young women do have a revolving door problem for men, seems like that's why everyone under the age of 21 is expecting a baby and not married. However it's the men getting them that way. The father wasn't apparently a very good judge of character either then if he chose to get her pregnant and then she proceeded to hand their child to a murderer. I mean how well did he know Alexis before they created the child? Apparently he thought she was alright, as he made the decision to sleep with her and ran the risk of fathering a child with her. Maybe he should have thought twice from the beginning. I don't think he should get a free ticket from responsibility, I mean obviously they created a child together, maybe they should have been married and together for the sake of the child, then the sweet little angel might still be here. But again, I get what you are saying, to a point. I'm done commenting, you have your opinion as I have mine. If it comes out that she had knowingly placed the child in harms way, I will agree she is accountable.
ReplyDeleteChris confessed to a family member that he had been abusing the little boy for months. How could the Mother to the child not see marks on him or ever suspect anything? She should be held accountable as well. She is pregnant with the murderers baby now. So sad. Rest in peace beautiful baby boy.
ReplyDeletechris a jerk who killed a little child of god and Xavier mother lost the baby I am happy she not pregnant with a kid killed baby
DeleteChris confessed to a family member that he had been abusing the little boy for months. How could the Mother to the child not see marks on him or ever suspect anything? She should be held accountable as well. She is pregnant with the murderers baby now. So sad. Rest in peace beautiful baby boy.
ReplyDeleteThat changes things completely if that is true! If he was abusing that child she would had to have known! So sad. She should be held accountable. Maybe it was God's way of getting the child out of those wicked people's hands and to safety! Poor little guy, he is in a better place now, being loved. I also did not know she was pregnant with his child! What a messed up situation it is. The ONLY person I feel sorry for is Xavier.
ReplyDeleteHe is guilty, when the relative went to the jail right after his arrest to get the full story, he confessed to torturing the little boy for all of the months that he had been living there as well as luring stray animals into the apartment and torturing them until the point of death and then setting them free. He said he didnt know what was wrong with him or why he was doing such things. I hope he gets exactly what he has coming to him...tortured and beaten to death while he is behind bars. I dont see how the Mother to this child could not have known what was going on. Makes no sense that the little boy was put to bed at 8 pm and no one noticed he was dead until almost noon the following day?? She is a pos for a Mom too...end of story.
ReplyDeleteWhat about the fact that Xavier laid in bed for 16 hours before anyone even thought to go and check on him? How do you just forget that you have a baby in the house? How can anyone sleep for 16 hours straight? Alexis Long is just as guilty as Chris Clayton and anyone who thinks differently is a complete moron. Why is she not being investigated? Oh, thats right, shes Mother of the year! I hope she rots in hell right along with Chris Clayton! Why are people supporting her? I dont inderstand!! Wake up people!! They both need to be locked up and tortured just as poor Xavier was. God bless the Father of this little boy and his family.
ReplyDeleteThank you!!
DeleteJeanie watts that little boy was my 2 cousin he was a true cute little baby he will been missed rip Xavier wurth our little angel
DeleteAlexis Long has made it public on Facebook that she is in a new relationship already!! Its only been a couple of months that her son was murdered and shes movin' with no problem! Cant anyone see she has mental problems? She neglected poor Xavier for 16 hours by not even checking on him to know he was laying dead! I dont know any child that will sleep for 16 hours straight! This bitch should be locked up right along with Christopher Clayton! She makes me sick!!! In my opinion, the new boyfriend looks like a freak, just like Christopher does!! Lock the bitch up and throw away the key!!
ReplyDeleteLies, lies & more lies!! Get your facts straight before you Start a blog with 90 % of it YOUR opinion not facts!!! You will should be a shamed of your self. I hope you never screw up in anything you do or your precious children are angels!! Last thing, worry about yourself and your own family and let the justice system take care of this case. Believe me they have investgated everything. So you keep your nose out of it bc we all get Judged in the end and you will get your's for posting this blog and all these lies, JEANIE!!!
ReplyDeleteDear Anonymous-
DeleteFacts were/are straight. I am not ashamed in the least. I am well aware that we will all be judged in the end and I can assure you that my judgement will have NOTHING to do with my posting a blog about factual information and the phenomenon of women putting their own selfish need for companionship before the safety and well being of their children. Thanks for your input,whoever you are. But I sleep just fine at night. I wonder if Xavier's "mother" (I use the term loosely) can say the same.
The facts are straight you numb skull!! Everyone knows that Alexis is equally as guilty as Chris you dumb ass!! It doesnt take a rocket scientist to know full well what was going on in that apartment!! Anyone who wants to say they think differently is a moron!
DeleteAlexis knew Chris was abusing Xavier. He had beat him a couple of days before & Xavier had been vomiting & sleeping a lot since then. He had beat him before too. She was afraid if she did anything, Chris would leave. She was also a couple of months pregnant when all of this happened. Just absolutely ridiculous!!
ReplyDeleteThank you for posting this.Many people are aware of what the truth to all of this is, but are afraid to say anything. At least there are a few of us who will speak up with facts. A baby is dead and everyone wants to act like it was all Christophers fault and not Alexis and thats ridiculous! Anyone who could think for a minute that she didnt know what was going on under her own roof is insane!! R.I.P Xavier..may the truth come out in your defense.
DeleteAlexis knew Chris was beating her son and she did nothing!! The beatings were an on going thing and she did NOTHING about it!! What is wrong with the public to think otherwise?? Any idiot can clearly see this. Why isnt her fat ass in jail with him? Its more than obvious that she could care less about the death of her son. Shes moved right on to the next boyfriend. That is not even normal at all to just jump into another relationship like she has!! When will she grieve and mourn the death of her little boy?? NEVER, because she is just as guilty as Chris!! Fry both of their asses and be done with it all!! It makes me sick that she is free as a bird jumping in bed with a new guy already when she deserves the death penalty!!!! She was lieing and telling everyone weeks prior to Xaviers death that he was ill with the flu....she knew damn well what was wrong with him!!! I wonder if shes still pregnant? Why is Chris behind bars and she isnt????
ReplyDeleteHey Anonymous, don't you think the cops, detectives, & children Services investaged the mother, checked with the family Dr. You crazy women are just pure nuts to think that the cops didn't do there jobs. Believe they did. This baby was sick weeks before and was at the Dr office with the flu. Why can't you women see that Chris is making stuff up from the past to add to his insanity plea. You all think your so smart. How do you know that this mother isnt grieving everyday? Do you walk in her shoes? or know what she has goes through. I know you don't care.and you hope she's going through hell. Well Congrats!!
DeleteI'm not going to argue with Crazy Evil women that want to judge and voice there opinion on what you think you know. Shame on you all and all your false info that you are being fed. Why don't you pray for this mother instead of rushing to slam her in the ground.? I'm sure all you women are Christians to right??? WOW
I am going to make a response to the last post. Far too many times things get swept under the rug "so to speak". If you come from a certain family or have particular relatives sometimes things will miraculously disappear or go away without note.This has nothing to do with anything that Chris is saying...it's about being a parent and providing a safe and loving and caring environment for your child. Does anyone even have any common sense anymore? Alexis full well knew what was being done to her baby boy. There is no way in hell that a Mother who is residing in the same home with her baby is not going to know what is going on and notice changes, including knots, bruises and vomiting. As for her to be going through hell...yes I would certainly hope that she is considering she allowed this to happen to her son. I believe that its more than clear that she is NOT going through any type of hell or she would not be out seeking a new relationship. That should have been the LAST thing on her mind. You are asking if any of us walk in her shoes and do we know what she is doing....she is advertising on facebook exactly what she is doing...shes posing for many new photos all dressed up with friends and family as well as showing off her new boyfriend. It sure doesn't look like signs of depression, sadness, or grieving to me. I myself am a Christian, thank you, however I am not a woman, so to continue bashing all of the crazy women is wrong on your part. Not only are you wrong to assume that everyone who comments on here is a woman, but you also can't spell or speak fluently either. I don't think many people will put much thought into anything you are saying considering you are illiterate.
ReplyDeleteOh one more thing...Since you know everything, can you at least tell all of us why Alexis left Xavier lay in his bedroom without even checking on him at all for roughly 15-16 hours straight?? You want to end your post with WOW...That's what I'm saying about a baby laying unattended and neglected for that many hours!!! WOW!! I suppose you find that acceptable too! Who leaves their baby lay in a soiled diaper for that number of hours and doesn't look in on them? Alexis that's who! Are you trying to tell the rest of us that Alexis is retarded?? Keep posting on here and the rest of us will too. You are a moron.
ReplyDeleteNo she went to Michigan on a girls get a way...get a way my ads she went to get an abortion! Straight fact!!!second straight fact she sent pictures of X's head to people an said he fell,when people replied take him to doctor she said tomorrow I have to work,it had already been all week!!!!!!!!!! Third how bout the time she back handed him across the room in front of her cousin cause he wouldn't leave tv alone!!! An someone tell me where in the hell you can go after eleven pm for pizza in st marys????? Cause that's what she texts to Chris phone!!!! Hmmmm well thought out plan if u ask me. Also she text Chris all nite long not once did she ask about X!!!!! Odd???? No bitch is guility too!!!!! An that is straight facts that the lawyers have!!!!!! With proof to show it's truth!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteNext Bryon the baby's father often stopped by unannounced while Chris was watching him alone. Bryon came in checked things out an never thought anything!!!! You ask me to much hush hush shit, just like Alexis telling people not to let Chris know she wasn't pregnant anymore!!!! Still sayin she loved him sending him secret messages. Really what the hell is she tryin to keep hidden an Chris silent???????? Think about it. How bout her burn fest on Facebook over Easter hmmm I could see baby things in that pile!!!!!! She is far from innocent point is a child is gone an they should both be held accountable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Deletegot a abortion the baby had a heart beat how can a mother kill her unbirn knowing just lost son plus post never been so happy right after so died
DeleteAmen to that! The bitch needs to be locked up right along with Chris. They are both guilty!! Is she really off the hook scott free, or will more evidence be submitted and possibly hold her accountable too? Both should be held accountable!!!
ReplyDeleteEveryone should write letters to the prosecutor demanding justice for Xavier which means holding Alexis accountable as well!
ReplyDeleteProsecutor Waldick
204 north main st. Suite 302
Lima, ohio 45801
Thank you for providing us with the address. I will be writing a letter for sure. RIP beautiful angel. I am so sorry that your Mommy put you through all of this.
DeleteFry the bitch! Shes GUILTY!!!
Deleteshe is GUILTY and also everyone who was knowledge of the abuse going on she knew before going to work could took baby to hospital chose not to because she quilty and doctor call cops but if was taking get medical attention he COULD POSSIBLE BE STILL ALIVE WITH SURGERY
DeleteEXACTLY!! ITS SAD AND HEARTBREAKING TO SAY, BUT NO ONE GAVE A FUCK ABOUT THIS LITTLE BOY...NO ONE! I PERSONALLY CAN SAY THAT IF MY DAUGHTER BROUGHT HOME SOME FREAK LIKE CHRISTOPHER FOR A BOYFRIEND, I WOULD NEVER ALLOW HIM TO BABYSIT MY GRANDCHILD!! ALEXIS'S PARENTS ARE JUST AS GUILTY TOO BECAUSE DONT TELL ME THAT THE ENTIRE GOD DAMNED FAMILY IS FUCKING CLUELESS AND CANT SPOT A FREAK WHEN THEY SEE ONE!! TOO MANY SELF CONSUMED ASSHOLES IS WHAT THEY ARE! FUCK ALL OF THEM!!
Deletethis is the stupidest thing ive ever heard. really you two bit fucking retards believe thats how it should be? are you all completely stupid every single one of you? first off how would you feel if any of this shit happened to you let alone by some one you trust and thought you could build a life with. he was a wolfs in sheeps clothing plain and simple. you know so much about the whole situation and every thing right? can you tell me any more besides the bullshit you read from face book? faux ass journalist... any fucking have brained special kid can start a blog and get every other half brained idiot to follow them clearly. people always said dont speak on what you dont know clearly you didnt get that memo. you sit here and criticize like your a know it all like you where the fucking god parent and how would you feel some stupid bitch criticizing you on some worthless fucking blog? she left for work like it was a ordinary day did her night shift and went home to sleep like every one else does at 4 o clock in the morning. who would of known that that would happen? and the 18 hours in a soiled diaper give me a break who gets home at 4 in the morning and wakes there kid up are you kidding me? if my lady told me every thing was alright you take there word for it and when your baby wakes you up in the morning on his on what mother wouldnt take the extra sleep in time? clearly not you evidently. ya shes ssssoooooo guilty.... for having faith in some one. and to see this trash spewed by bags of shit on the internet. hope same thing happens to most of you all.
ReplyDeleteNo one gives a fuck how Alexis supposedly feels because shes GUILTY!! Yes 18 fucking hours is the length of time that Xavier laid dead so dont tell me that I dont know what the fuck Im talking about! And fuck you bitch because I dont know of any baby thats gonna sleep that many fucking hours you stupid bitch! Your level of intelligence or should I say lack of, clearly shows that you are a lazy fucking bitch just like her and wouldnt give a fuck about your kid either because NO ONE doesnt look in on their baby when they come home. Its a natural instinct of any loving caring Mother to look in on a sleeping baby when they arrive home, so go fuck yourself!! You say you hope this happens to those of us who can easily and clearly see through the bullshit, but in fact you will probably be the next one that it happens to because your just an un caring nasty ass lazy bitch like Alexis so FUCK OFF! Im supporting the deceased baby!!
DeleteDear Anonymous, (posted Oct. 21st and calling us "two-bit effing re----"
DeleteA few things. First of all I can't even begin to tell you how cowardly I think it is to post/spew hateful names and vicious wishes on people you don't know without having the testicles to stand behind your own name. Anonymity is the epitome of "drunken courage" in the online world. Second, to wish ANYONE would endure anything as horrific and life altering as the death of their child is ignorant at best and screams volumes of your ineptitude for civilized human behavior much less logical thought processes . Third, you missed the point. Clearly. The original problem is that she TRUSTED this person at all!! She DID NOT KNOW him well enough to entrust her child and his life to this person. I'm not going to nitpick on the idiocracy of your garbled thought process, your petty little details (which are asinine) or the obvious lack of grammar skills you posess. What I will do is stand 100% behind my post and all of my comments. She is just as guilty as her soulmate (flavor of the month) in the death of her child. She failed in the worst way in her job as a mother. She absolutely should be spending the rest of her life in jail. Period. You can cuss, scream, rant, rave and call me whatever name you feel so inclined to throw out (for lack of better or more advanced communicative skills no doubt) and it won't matter. The facts won't change. Neither will her culpability. She might never spend a second in jail. That's ok. She will absolutely answer for her role in the death of her child by a much higher court than we could ever subject her to.
Thank you Jeanie for putting that moron in their place! I agree 110 percent with you and all that you say. Thank you again for taking a stand for Xavier. Gone but never forgotten...RIP little man.
DeleteYou're welcome. I am happy to take a stand for him.....I only wish his mother would have done the same thing when it mattered and could have saved his life.
DeleteShe got off work at 10pm not 4am and was at the bowling alley having pizza and beer per everyone who was with her. Guess that's why she couldn't check on her baby when she finally decided to drag her aSS home! In addition good reason to save the child she was pregnant with from fetal alcohol syndrome and murder it by having an abortion! Now she says she is enjoying starting her life over. While she is out partying her babies receive no justice!!
ReplyDeleteGuess what bitch, no she wasn't she was at a pizza party at her work she left at 12. she wasn't at the bowling drinking beer. she didnt barely ever drink.,get your fucking facts straight before you go bashing people. I hope you rot in hell for all your lies. ppl know the real facts so go fuck off.
ReplyDeleteGuess what you dumb cunt...no one gives a fuck where she was, or how long she was gone...SHE DIDNT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT HER BABY FULL WELL KNOWING THAT HE WAS SICK...I have facts straight from the police department, so now what? You are an ignorant bitch!
Deleteanonymus you no nothing about this this little boy was loved by my family bryon was a good father are family did not know that Xavier was been abused
DeleteAs for you Jennifer Kohls, who claim to know so much and be close knit with Xaviers father..His fathers name is Byron, not Bryon and the correct grammar is our family, not are family. How could all of you idiots not know that Xavier was being abused?? Do all of you dumb asses think its normal for a little boy to walk around with bruises?? Please! For the love of God! You people make me sick!
DeleteByron is my cousin anoymouse hey my family is not a idiots
DeleteHmm funny she has stated she was at bowling alley in her own statements and those who have been friends with her and Chris before and after are disgusted by all her new found freedom. She says chris taught Xavier to walk and talk. Well ask anyone who was always around that is because her fat ass was always napping or too busy watching tv. Oh but give her credit she went to her PART TIME job after bitching about her child being sick on facebook. Her priority is herself and always has been. She found a surrogate to care for her child and he snapped and the unthinkablehappened...she deserves to go to jail and have a hysterectomy!
ReplyDeleteA fucking men to that!! She is a fat ugly worthless piece of shit who is a waste of space.Fuck her and anyone who is stupid enough to feel sorry for her. She knew her child was sick and had been sick and had bumps and bruises and goes to a pizza party!! I dont give a fuck if the party was at the fucking bowling alley or at her work place...it doesnt matter!! The stupid bitch is guilty!
Deletethat is not nice 2 called Xavier mother fat
DeleteWow!! Jennifer Kohls....so its not nice to called Xavier mother fat!! You cant even speak fluently!! I believe you meant to say It's not nice to call Xavier's Mother fat...you stupid bitch! What difference does it make that someone is stating a clear fact that Alexis is fat? Is it a lie? No it is not. She is clearly a fat slob as well as a Mother who neglected her child and is a murderer! You seem as though you have a second grade education. I seriously doubt that anyone on this blog is going to listen to anything that your dumb ass has to say! Maybe you should go back to school and be educated before you speak!
Deleteanonumous that little boy was my cousin please stop it is not nice that a little boy had 2 die
Deleteanoymouse a little boy is death be cmaes of them 2 stupid people I never know Xavier mother but his father I know be cmaes he was my cousin rip Xavier wurth our little angel
ReplyDeleteYou are a sick human being...I hope you burn in Hell for this...who are you anyway...a Christian? Hardly.
ReplyDeletewho me I am not a sick human being that little boy is my 2 cousin I am a catholic I am not a hardly so leave me and my family alone
DeleteNot to you..the blogger
DeleteDear Anonymous,
DeleteFirst of all-please refer to one of my prior comments regarding the cowardly actions of hiding behind anonymity when spewing your hatred. Second, I assure you I am not sick. I am absolutely a Christian. And I promise you if you were you would not wish eternal damnation on anyone regardless of their faith. But thanks for taking the time to read and spew.
Annonymous why don't you put your name? Coward I hope you all rot in hell with Satan our savior !! Hail satan!!!! Don't worry everyone he will save you from this judgemental earth where people can't even be. Victims without getting accused. I hope all over you people talking shot have miscarriage or maybe get into a bad car wreck and die and leave behind children so we can all tell them how shifty of parents you are and how you didn't love them! Yay it's going to be so much fun !! ��
ReplyDeletebeen nice I hate satan I am a true catholic so belive in god and jesus
DeleteI'm not even sure where to start with this one but I'll give it a shot. Dear Anonymous.......again.....cowardly, anonymity, etc. It's getting old. If you think you have the balls to say something and rant and rave then at least have the courtesy to use your name. Hey, if you're so convinced we're idiots and you're right then why hide? I find it ironic that you use the curtain of anonymity and yet call out someone else doing the same thing as being a coward. Pot. Kettle. Black. Get it? Now, moving on.....Satan is NO ONE's savior but this isn't a religious discussion so I'll table that. Suffice it to say that God is the only one who can save anyone from the trials and tribulations of this Earth. As for victims being accused......Alexis was not / is not a victim and for you to insinuate otherwise is not only ignorant and disgusting but it dishonors the actual (and only) victim here. Xavier. That precious boy was a victim of his mother's ignorance and selfishness and her boyfriend's brutality. I am confused about your wish for those of us talking "shot" ( I think you meant shit) to have miscarriage (another grammatical error but hey, who's keeping track). Alexis didn't have a miscarriage. That's not how she lost her son or the subsequent baby she was carrying. She delivered the first baby, Xavier into the hands of his killer and laid on a table for a doctor to kill the second one. (FYI-I've miscarried a couple times. Not sure what that has to do with this situation or how that helps you but thought you should know anyway) Equally disturbing and confusing is your wish for us to die in a car wreck and leave children behind. (Did you mean "shifty" or were you trying to say we're shitty parents? Grammar. Really.You should practice and edit. ) I can only assume that this is your attempt at correlating your statement about victims being accused......like if I die in a wreck,even though I was a victim you'll accuse me of dying because I don't love my kids. Am I close? This is quite possibly one of the most asinine statements yet. Wishing death on someone else who says something that you don't like screams volumes about the kind of person YOU are......not them. And you can tell my children anything you like. I have loved them all and loved them well enough that they would NEVER doubt that. Car wreck or no.
DeleteJeanie watts it is still sad that a little kid had 2 died
DeleteIt's not sad. It's tragic. And Xavier didn't HAVE to die. (I think that's actually in the title of my blog post if you read it.) He was murdered. It is absolutely tragic, horrific and unfathomable because he DID NOT HAVE TO DIE. Jennifer,you are spending so much time and energy trying to convince us of what we all agree on. A little boy was killed and it is heartbreaking. None of us has said, hinted or insinuated any differently. I can't figure out what your agenda is here,honestly. Are you defending Alexis? Do you think she's a victim just like that precious child? Do you just want to make sure we all know he died and shouldn't have? I'm confused. He wasn't a little kid. He was a baby. A precious, innocent baby who wasn't able to speak for himself or protect himself from monsters. Sadly, the one person who should have been willing to lose her own life to protect him from the monsters was one herself.
Deletethat is all true jeanie watts Xavier was my 2 cousin sorry for make you mad
DeleteFor the love of God! Now she has photos posted on her fb account of a new puppy and pics of her holding a new little boy..Im assuming its the new boyfriends baby. Honestly, I feel that if she couldnt take care of her own son and provide him with a safe loving home that she sure as hell isnt capable of caring for a dog, or someone elses child for that matter!! Recently Kinsley Kinner was murdered at the hands of her Moms boyfriend also...only difference is the Mom was charged also. Something majorly wrong with this picture here with poor Xavier and his dumb ass Mom!!! Wake up Auglaize County!!! Alexis is a murderer who is walking free. Makes me SICK!!!
ReplyDeleteJeanie Watts, I understand completely that you have had some kind of mission to get justice for Xavier Wurth. But I'm completely at a loss as to how this blog gets this little boy justice? Please let this little beautiful child rest in peace. I am also wondering why this has turned into bash Alexis Long site? How does her weight and all the awful things that have been said recently have anything to do with the tragedy that happened almost a year ago. I would just like to know who you are and what prompted you to start a blog about this one event that happened in the Lima Area. There are tons of tradegy every day in our area and all over the world...I just really wonder why you choose this? It truly baffles me that everyone that comments on this blog is perfect. Its not anyones judgement to tear another person down! It is our Almighty Father to judge. And it is him that will forgive the sins of everyone... Jeanie Watts why don't you tell every your faults, your mistakes, things that you have been judged by. And the same to all these Anonymous people using such profanity. Can you not write a paragraph without using those awful words? My last and finally words are, all of you must not have any faith in our legal system! You don't think that Spencerville Police Dept, Lima Police Dept, Lima Detectives, Lima Court System and everyone else involved have crossed every T and dotted every I before closing this case. Isn't that why they protect and serve? They are not going to let a killer go free. Can't we just let this go and move on.
ReplyDeleteI would like to respond in regards to this last post. Some people are still furious that a killer is free. Free to continue her life while her son is laying cold in the ground. Some people are deeply affected by the fact that the killer has no remorse or otherwise she would not have rushed out and got herself another boyfriend as she did. Who cares if some want to say thing about Alexis's appearance? Many people arent as ignorant as you obviously are. Many people are still in a rage over this because its just another case where justice was not served. People who are guilty go free every day, so if you think Alexis is innocent just because the police dept didnt charge her then you really are either ignorant or naive. Why are you angry with Jeanie Watts over this?? She has a right to her opinion too just like everyone else. I dont know who you think you are but this is Jeanies blog and not yours so the way I see it...if you dont like it then get the hell off of it then! Gee, if I were to guess I would swear that Im talking to Alexis herself here! Maybe I am, or maybe you are just some other dumb ass just like her who thinks you are perfect and want to call people out because they use profane language! Lol! I personally do not have any faith in our legal system, so now what?? What do you have to say about that? You sound like a dumb ass who has lived in a shell your whole life and are oblivious to everything. Is Alexis not a fat lazy slob who allowed her son to be murdered? Yes, she IS! No one on here has said anything about her that is not true! I will defend the murdered child until the end of time and thers nothing you can do about it! Alexis should be in prison right along with Christopher. Get off Jeanies blog if you dont like what is being said and the language that is being used!!I am completely baffled myself at why you would ask Jeanie why she started the blog!! Hello... a little boy was murdered!! Maybe you werent affected by that and maybe you only think of yourself, but Im here to tell you that there are alot of people pissed off about this and they arent going to just forget about it like you think they should. No one on this blog thinks they are perfect!! The fact is that no one else on this blog is a murderer and thats the difference you moron!!Dont ask Jeanie to disclose all of her faults! She is not the one who allowed her baby to be murdered and slowly beaten to death you stupid bitch! My final words are go to hell because I am defending Xavier and will continue to do so and theres not a damn thing you can do about it!!
DeleteI think you are a little confused on a few things so let me clarify them for you. First of all, I didn't START this blog to seek justice for Xavier. This blog was actually started eight years ago as a way for me to journal and write through my grief at the death of my twin daughters. I write about anything and everything that moves me and nothing moves me more than the fact that so many mothers are willing to put their sexual needs or the need to have a man, ANY man in their bed/house above the absolute need to love,protect and nurture their own children. THAT is exactly what Alexis did and continues to do. Second, as for the fact that this occured in the Lima area and you're unsure why it would matter to me.....it matters to me no matter where it happens. It's a child. A baby. A helpless, innocent victim of his mother's selfishness and a stranger's brutality. Christopher WAS a stranger to this baby. Hell, Alexis didn't even know him. Lima is my hometown. I was born and raised there. My oldest two children were born in Lima. There was a time when I lived in the exact apartments where this murder took place. Third, I'm not sure where you read in a single comment that ANY of us think we're perfect. I certainly am not and have never professed to be. Not even close. What would you like to know about my faults? And how do my faults change the fact that Alexis stood by and allowed a man to warm her bed and beat her child TO DEATH? Does the fact that I've been married and divorced twice and am married to my 3rd husband change that? Does the fact that I have made many mistakes as a parent with my own children somehow alter the outcome of Alexis' CHOICE to put a man before her child? No. They don't. If you had actually READ the comments and my replies as well as my original post you would have known that I've been where Alexis was. The difference is I put MY CHILD first. I left. Period. There was no question. My child was my priority. Her needs were hers. And now a baby is dead because of that. And last-the whole "faith in the legal system" question. Do you ACTUALLY live in the USA or are you just that naive? Bad doesn't always lose. Child rapists, molesters, killers go free EVERY SINGLE DAY. Do you honestly believe that just because Alexis was never arrested or charged she is innocent?
DeleteDo you sincerely think that because she isn't in prison she did nothing wrong? If not for Alexis and her selfish choices Xavier would be alive. If not for Alexis allowing that hideous man to repeatedly abuse her baby Xavier would still be alive. Christopher might well be the killer of that precious child but Alexis is 100% equally responsible and therefore should be in prison for the rest of her life. Sadly, the laws aren't written in such a way that she can be arrested and charged. And that's a travesty. Don't for one moment believe that many of those in the SPD and LPD don't think the same thing. I assure you-they do. As for the other posters here on my blog. I don't appreciate all of the profanity and personal attacks either. They're pointless and irrelevant. There was a time I considered deleting those. However I decided not to censor my blog and allow the right to freedom of speech to carry on here. People have feelings about this. They feel deeply and passionately about the senseless death of this baby and all the others who die every day because women refuse to protect them for fear of being alone. They have opinions and if I start deleting them because I disagree then what's the point of having a blog to begin with? Not to mention-your comment would've been deleted,too. One last thing....my MISSION isn't just for Xavier. It's for every single innocent child out there regardless of age who falls victim to the selfishness of the very people who should be their protectors. They deserve a voice. You and anyone else who thinks I should mind my own business can continue your fight to shut me up but I assure you......you'll tire and walk away before I ever will.
Deletetoday has been a 1 since Xavier was found died
DeleteMy goodness...must be a toddler that typed out the last posting! WOW!!
Deleteyou can that right Jeanie watts
ReplyDeleteWth does this even mean? Can we say illiterate? I think so!
Deletewe miss you so much Xavier
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